With Valentines Day lurking around the corner, whether you love it, hate it, or are indifferent to it, it's definitely a day for you to show your loved one how much you care.
I know, I know.. A lot of people argue, why on Valentines Day? Well, let's be real, a lot of the time, we do get so caught up in our lives, our jobs, our day to day, that the things that matter most often fall to the wayside. That's why Valentines Day does matter - it's a reminder that we have loved ones that need some attention, some tender love and care.
So, with Valentines Day just over a month away, we wanted to ensure that our lovelies, yes - you, start thinking about the upcoming "day of love" and expression of everything to do with it. You can jump to our Valentines Day collection if you'd like..
As we were writing this up, we thought that perhaps it would be interesting to share the history of Valentines Day with you, and then decided, well, maybe you just don't care, or maybe you want to learn about it on your own accord, so, for those of you who are interested, you can learn about it here.
So, the big looming question is, what can you do to make the day special for your loved one? So, we have some idea's for you.. are you ready to make your partner feel like they're a king or queen?
Remember, the whole idea here is to really show your partner that you care. And though some things might seem dumb, or stupid, or just a royal colossal waste of money, they do, nonetheless matter. The prime example - the Valentines Day Card. If your partner is anything like my wife, who knows how much I can't stand cards, I know how much she loves them, so a well thought out card to start off the day will go a long long way! Ohh yeah, you'd better write something meaningful inside too! (thought i'd mention this before someone accuses me of ruining their marriage because they gave an empty but well thought out card).
Now, since we have some time to think about the upcoming day, and some time to plan for it... it's a Tuesday by the way, Tuesday the 14th of February. Let's consider all the things we could do for our loved ones.. remember, this is a gesture for them, so, perhaps it's a show you know they've really wanted to see, or perhaps it's an opportunity to try something new together.. don't worry, we'll give you some ideas soon.. but for now, think about how you can present this to your partner.. I love adding a little mystery, so, I'd add something to the card saying, I need you to be home by X time, and I need you to be ready, wearing "X" clothing by "X" time for something special... This will make them anxious and leave them wondering and anticipating what's to come at said "X" time.
Ok, so now they are off to work, I'd take this time to continue to show them how much you love and care.. and keep the anticipation at it's peek. So, think about maybe sending some Edible Arrangements over to her work.. (i'd take this route over roses any day; it'll make her feel special, make her coworkers a little jealous, and it's not quite as tacky as roses). Include with the edible arrangements a note that speaks to what you have planned in a very secretive way.
At this point, you have given him/her a great morning, a great afternoon, and now it's up to that great evening to seal the deal.
As you know from our previous writings, we are very big on the secretive art of pleasure through remote controlled devices in public. So, now it's time to spice up the night a little bit. You want it to be sensual and fun, romantic and sexy, and lustful all at the same time. This ensures that when you get home, the night will just continue to get better and better.
At this point, I'd present him/her with something that you're going to ask them to wear under their clothing for the night.. Keep in mind, we are preparing this list for varying degrees of experience and desires, so some may or may not be for you: Here are a few ideas for him and for her:
Some Ideas for Your Man For Valentines Day 2017:
There is the Remote Controlled Cock Ring..
Ok, So, men either love cock rings or hate them. And at the same time, they are meant to provide enhanced pleasures during sex. That said, adding a remote controlled cock ring to his wardrobe for the evening will keep him on his toes as you continue to keep his anticipation building throughout the night. I just caution, don't leave him with blue balls.
This cock ring boasts 10 functions with a dedicated power button to shut it off instantly. Best of all it will work from several feet away, so, if you're sitting at a dinner table, you should have no problem controlling his penis. I assure you, this will keep his mind in a constant state of sexual peek. Again, I do urge you to be cautious and ensure that he does not end up with blue balls, as this could be a night ruiner. Another thing to note is that, from a sexual perspective, both men and women will get the most pleasure through their minds rather than through physical touch.. so, when using this device, it's great to attribute the sensation to something that you know they already love. So, perhaps you whisper in their ear, as you turn it on the first time, every time you feel this sensation, I want you to think about me doing so and so to you later. Make sure "so and so" is something he absolutely LOVES! By doing this, you're using some Neuro Linguistic programming and psychology to heighten the sensation. Ohh yeah, maybe pick out a great pair of underwear to help him conceal his boner throughout the night.
Have you ever considered a cock cage? This could make the night quite interesting as you are taking 100% of your mans power away from him. Only to release him from his cage later on and have him completely in a state of readiness to explode.
Another idea for your man, especially if he's open to prostate pleasures, would be a remote control butt plug.
Before trying anything Anal, I urge you to know a very important fact. The Anal cavity is several feet long between the anus and the intestines. Unlike the vaginal opening which ends at the Cervix. This means, you can 100% get something lost up there and end up in the emergency room.. so, always be cautious with the toys you choose for anal play, and ensure that the fit has a base large enough to not end up inside you completely.
Ok, now that that is said, this toy boasts a 16.5 feet range and a single charge can run the motor for up to 3 hours continuously. Holy Moly! Best of all, it will fit comfortably between your butt cheeks for long term wear. This toy can be used much the same as the cock ring, and might even make him spew his pants in your company and out in public. Again, remember, both men and women will get the most pleasure through their minds rather than through physical touch, so definitely tie this in to something through suggestion and it will take things to a whole new level!
Some Ideas for Your Woman For Valentines Day 2017:
From the same ideas for men, here are some great suggestive items that can add some spice to the night for your lovely lady. The goal is to keep her in a constant state of heightened sexual energy throughout the night, so that when you get home, or even before that, you'll be all over each other.
So, lets start with some sexy lingerie. Woman absolutely love lingerie for many reasons. Firstly, it makes her feel sexy knowing that your eyes are captivated by her beauty. She loves to turn you on, and though what she wears may not be super comfortable, she'll oversee this, just to know she's turning you on. Choose something that you know you'll both love, and your night will be off to a great start, even before you leave the house. Present this to her as something you'd like her to wear out that night under her clothing.
Now that you have that perfect under ensemble picked out, let's add something spicy to it. Now, most women will get the most pleasure through clitoral stimulation, but you know your woman best, so be sure to choose the right toy for the way in which she gets most pleasure. We'll focus on the clitoral stimulator to ensure ultimate pleasure.
This has quickly become one of our favourite toys. Compatible with iPhones, iPads, or Android Devices through a dedicated App, this toy will give you all the rechargeable power with the added benefit of bluetooth capabilities.
Some details to know: It will require 1.5 to 2 hours to get a full charge. The full charge will give you up to a full hour of continuous use.. so, if you use it in spurts as you plan to, it will be good all night long! Whats the rang? Holy crap, a whopping 26 feet! This has all the power, range, and everything you could ask for from a remote controlled clitoral stimulator. And best of all, it's not too loud, so there is some discretion there compared to some of it's rivalling products.
I mentioned this is one of our favourites, and here's why: We used this toy not too long ago as we went out for dinner. My wife just loves to give me full control of her body, and this toy does just that. I powered it up when she would order a drink, or speak to a waiter. She absolutely loved it.. then I'd power it up while suggesting sweet thoughts in to her ear, and it turned her on drastically..
By the time we were on our way home, she had removed her panties, opened her legs and started to touch herself on the way home. We were both so turned on by this that by the time we got home she was already completely naked in the car, and ran in to the house in her birthday suit. All be it, we were on a quieter street at the time.
If this one isn't for you, there are a myriad of other remote control toys that you can take a look at.
Now that you've arrived at home, how can the night unfold from here? Well, if you've done everything as mentioned throughout the day, it's unlikely you'll need anything else for the night aside from 2 willing bodies (or maybe more depending on your relationship).
Perhaps a Little Sensual Play Would Keep Things Hot When You Get Home?
Thought about eating some chocolate off of your lover? Maybe providing him or her a great massage? Here are a few things that could keep things very exciting when you get home:
Creamy, dreamy and definitely decadent, mouthwatering Body Chocolate from Sensuous can be brushed, swirled or finger-painted playfully over a mate's body, leaving behind a delicious design to be licked, sucked and nibbled.
From my experience, and depending on your bodies, it may be better to choose body parts wisely when using this. I say this, being a hairy beast, that is was definitely better eating it off of my lovers smooth body than she would eating it off of mine.. however, there were definitely some body parts that she found where she could enjoy licking the chocolate off of as much as I enjoyed her linking it.
Ohh yeah, it's delicious too!
But Maybe you have some sensual massages in mind...
I have a new found love for the art of massage, and can honestly say, that a loving massage from your loving partner can go a VERY VERY long way. Maybe put tender music on, grab some great massage oil and get going with this awesome ceramic massage stone that will glide so perfectly over your lovers body.
If adding the stone is not for you, you could always just use your hands. Just make sure you pic a great massage oil that will compliment your touch.
To sweeten the mood even further, candles can go a long long way. We do suggest though, if you're doing either the massage, the chocolate, or a combination of both, definitely consider a sheet for your bed that you don't mind getting a little dirty.. with my Egyptian cotton white sheets, we always protect our bed when we get in to play.
We, at Adultiful, wish you, our lovelies, a very happy Valentines Day!
If you have other ideas, share them with us in the comments below, we'd love to hear what you have planned!For other fun ideas, you can check out our Valentines Day Collection, which may spur some other thoughts you may have for a rock solid, super fun, romantic, and exhilarating Valentines Day with your lover.